Tamra Judge didn’t get the typical birthday message this year.

While the Real Housewives of Orange County star is keeping it real with her followers in the wake of her brow lift, CO2 laser treatment, and blue chemical peel that has left her looking unrecognizable, her mom, Sandy Baker, didn’t hold back when sharing her thoughts.

The reality star shared a screenshot of the note from her mom on Sept. 2, which happened to be her 57th birthday, that read, “Your face literally makes me want to throw up. It looks so painful and you don’t look like yourself. One of my friends called and asked if you’d been in a motorcycle accident.”

Tamra found the message to be hilarious, sharing a video of her swollen face, and laughing.“I literally can’t stop laughing about my mom’s text message to me,” she said. “You guys know where I get my empathy from right? I can’t, she’s too much.”

But Sandy, who actually lives with Tamra and Eddie Judge, didn’t stop there. She continued texting Tamra, including writing, “Another friend called and said you look homeless. Said your face looks dirty.”  

Tamra has been documenting the aftermath of the intensive cosmetic procedures in videos for her fans since the end of August. In her initial videos, Tamra’s skin had a light blue tint due to the blue chemical peel. Her face has also swollen up and “gotten crispy” from the treatments.

Prior to sharing her mom’s messages, Tamra gave fans a birthday update, saying, “This is the thick of it right here. This is the worst day of it all and it happens to be on my birthday. Happy birthday to me,” adding, “The swelling is pretty bad.”

She also shared a positive update, noting, “I’m able to turn the TV now. Before noise hurt my head so bad because of the brow lift so I just wanted to stay in complete silence.”